Letting go of people or traditions is hard because you invest so much in them that to let go can be scary . But it can also be liberating...or even essential to your happiness.If you don't let go ,you can find yourself in a dark place unable to kick your worst habits.And sometimes , if we truely love someone we have to be okay with letting go.
让旧人和传统过去是很难的，因为你投入了太多而害怕失去。但是让它们过去也可以是一件解放身心、甚至必要的变快乐的途径。如果你不让过去过去，你可能会让自己深陷黑暗的角落,无力摆脱最坏的习惯。所以有时候，如果你真的爱过一个人，你不得不温柔地对过去说再见。
Geoffrey Chaucer wrote: “time heals all wounds,” but what he failed to mention was the scar those wounds leave behind. The painful things that happened to us permanently leave their mark. They don't necessarily hurt anymore but they are always there as a reminder, as a memory. And as time passes maybe the memory gets a little fuzzy. But we always have the scar to remind us it happened that we lived through it, that we survived.
Right now, the label on me would say, "Heartbroken, extra large." But the one thing that you have to remember about the labels--they only matter if you let them stick.
比方说--
“There's a breif moment when you first wake up where you have no memories -- a blissful blank slate, a happy emptiness. But it doesn't last long, and you remember exactly where you were, and what you were trying to forget--...--what is worse, you have no one to be angry with except yourself.”
再比方说--
“When my mom died, I didn't cry at all, once. I think because, in a way, I've been numb ever since. But not tonight. I felt everything. I felt happy. So happy that I couldn't handle it for a second. But I'm ready. To feel everthing.”
然后就是最上面的一段话 也是第一季剧终引言
time,
wounds,
scar,
memory,
live thourgh
survive...
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