How To Be Single 单身指南
We're embarrassed to admit we're single, and try to pretend that we're not. We're supposed to act all cheerful and happy about it. But why should we be embarrassed? We're living longer, marrying later, and refusing to leave the party before we're really, really done. So why do we always tell our stories through relationships?
I've been thinking that the time we have to be single, is really the time we have to get good at being alone. But, how good at being alone do we really want to be? Isn't there a danger that you'll get so good at being single, so set in your ways that you'll miss out on the chance to be with somebody great? Some people take baby steps to settle down. Some people refuse to settle at all.
The thing about being single is, you should cherish it because in a week or a lifetime, of being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment, when you're not tied up in a relationship with anyone, a parent, a pet , a sibling, a friend. One moment, when you stand on your own. Really, truly single. And then, it's gone.
单身可以是享受放纵的，也可以是清醒克制的; 可以是孤独凄凉的，也可以是自在随心的。无论哪一种，你，都是为自己的选择埋单的那个人。杨绛先生说，世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。
一个人时，可以读书，健身，学会烹饪，交新朋友。想清楚自己要什么很重要，这样就不会陷入dick-sand, 不会轻易开始和结束一段关系，不断地付出试错成本。
HD
